Episode 85: Alunas Havens on The Winner’s Paradigm

If you don’t solve trauma it is going to come out again and again. Today’s guest has had to learn that. From his tumultuous childhood to his time in the military and then as a young father, he has learned that a winning paradigm is about being willing to re-calibrate his mindset over and over again. Alunas Havens shares his … Read More

Episode 84: Why You need a Jar of Hearts

Why is it so hard to love ourselves no matter what? We know that loving ourselves is a prerequisite to loving others, as well as treating ourselves kindly and compassionately. Yet literally everyone struggles with this on some level. Cue up habits. Loving yourself needs to be a habit that you place a high priority on. As in we only … Read More

Episode 82: Becca Ribbing on Can You Pass the Getting Honest Test?

Life gets shorter every day and, Coach Becca  Ribbing chats frankly about how in midlife, we don’t have time to fool ourselves. Some unlikely habits to distract us from our truth include things like scrolling endlessly on our phones or binge-watching shows. We may falsely believe it is painful to get honest with ourselves, but it is likely more painful … Read More

Episode 80: Sarah Loverdi on Why People hate to Love Anger

Anger can have negative connotations. But is that fair? As humans, we experience all kinds of emotions, and anger is just an emotion that can be a habit or can be suppressed, or it can be unpredictable. In this episode private counselor and social worker, Sarah Loverdi talks about the benefits of anger, and why we hate to love it. … Read More

Episode 79: Three Terrible Taboos to Avoid for Better Aging

How do you picture your future life? Do you want to be the person who is slowly dying, in pain, and watching life from the sidelines? Or do you wanna be the person who has gusto and who lives life on her own terms until the very last moment?  I think we can all agree that we’d like to actually … Read More

Episode 77: Five Reasons Why Your Willpower Fails and What to Do About It

This is the week (End of January beginning of February)  Where New Year’s resolutions most often become a forgotten promise.  It is the time when the excitement of a new goal has worn off and the new behaviors are just so damn hard. For midlife and Gen X  people women, who have experienced this willpower failure, over numerous years, this … Read More